Big thinker’s vocabulary

1. Use big, cheerful words.
2. Have big, positive words for all your friends and associates.
3. Use positive language, compliment every time.
4. Use positive words to define your plans.

Plug Energy Leaks

Do the people with whom you work give you energy or do they take energy from you in an unhealthy way? It’s hard to maintain your passion when you are constantly trying to cope with someone who is a downer. Sometimes you need to put a healthy distance physically or at least mentally distance between yourself and someone who is constantly draining your energy. Don’t allow yourself to become trapped with someone who drains your energy.

If these people are important to you, talk to them. This is important!

Be the winner u were born to be

Be the winner you are born to be:

First, you have to evaluate and understand your capabilities. From there you have to learn how to downplay the negatives and focus on the positives. Then you have to learn how to nurture your passion so that the distractions and setbacks you encounter along the way do not defeat you.

There is no overtime in life, no going back onto the field for one last play. The lifestyle choices we make everyday truly determine the level of our performance, whether we remain a good prospect or become suspect. It’s up to us to make sure we’re choosing wisely.

Control your thoughts, thus control your life

Sit for a moment and tune into your high self.

Studies shows we think about 50,000 thoughts per day, whatever you are thinking about you probably are experiencing. Are the majority of your thoughts positive, self lifting or otherwise? Our thoughts affect us.

It’s very important to create a positive focus in life. Control your thoughts, you control your life.

Freedom

What is the key to releasing yourself from your emotional prison?

Simply this: Your thoughts create your emotions; therefore, your
emotions cannot prove that your thoughts are accurate. Unpleasant
feelings merely indicate that you are thinking something negative and
believing it. Your emotions follow your thoughts just as surely as baby
ducks follow their mother.

choose the thoughts you put in your mind and release yourself from this prison...

you get what you are afarid of

When we spend time worrying about things that could go wrong,
we’re not spending time trying to improve. Which means that worrying
about things going wrong increases the chances that they
will go wrong.

Accepting that sometimes we will succeed and sometimes fail
frees us to pursue achievements and to spend time thinking about
what we can do instead of what we can’t.

have a better day than good/~

Appreciation

"There is more hunger for love and appreciation in this world than for bread." Mother Teresa

This is such a powerful statement because appreciation is such a powerful tool and when people are appreciated, it brings about a huge sense of accomplishment, value, power and happiness in their life. Great thing about appreciation is its easy, you just have to look into positives and inspiring work of others.

Think about who you have not appreciated lately; parents, siblings, coworkers, neighbor etc, time to pay them a trip of gratitude.

hope you all had great weekend!

A sane person

A healthy, normal person sees himself as responsible for his own life. He does not blame his problems or his life situation on anyone but himself. He will never complain or criticize otherse who are more successful, or condemns people for doing well. If he is not happy with his situation, he gets busy and takes action to improve it. He never blames other people for his own personal problems.

Ever wonder what type of person are you? It is very important in life to hang around the right people.

wishing you better than good week ahead ;) signing off, yazi~/

All the choices

All the results in life you are currently experiencing are absolutely perfect for you. This includes your career, personal relationships and financial status. How could they be something else? The reason where you are today in life is direct result of the choices you have made in the past.

In other words, your regular approach to positive choices or lack of them have put you where you are today. When and only when you accept the full responsibility you are well on your way to peace of mind. Many of us are filled with frustration because we are stuck with Have-To's. There's nothing in this life that you have to, its all choices.. here are some of the stuff you might want to analyze:

How can I do something when I am going through hell.
She made me angry
I am never going to make enough money.
I am stuck with this relationship.
I hate my job.
I hate this.

How sad, All of this is a choice you are making. I realized in life nothing changes unless you yourself change.

hope you see the point, thanks have a great day! summer is here (:

Confidence building

Few confidence building measures that are worth trying. I am sure you can add more..

• Everyday remind yourself you do things well. Like everyone else you have your qualities, there are things you do better than others
• Read inspiring biographies & autobiographies. It will inspire you, there are lots of people who have made it, starting from nothing.
• Be thankful. There's always someone worse off than you out there, regardless of your circustances
• Build excellent support around you. Positive, supportive mind people who instead of bogging you down they push you up.
• Push your self to accomplish short term goals. This will put you in momentum and you will start seeing yourself as a finisher.
• Do something for yourself every week. Take a message, sit in hot tub, buy yourself flowers or that couple scopes of ben & jerry.

hope you are having great weekend, I been soooo busy with stuff here but glad to be back to blogging (:

Focus on right things

Have you ever gotten in a cab and told the driver "Just take me anywhere"? We know that the road to anywhere leads to the town called Nowhere. Yet a lot of people are leading their lives in such a way.

Achieving what you want in life does not require any magic formulas or secret ingredients. It's simply focusing on what works versus what does not work. Many people focus on wrong things. Those who live from paycheck to paycheck every month have not focused or studied how to acquire financial intelligence. Many people are stuck in a job that they don't like or enjoy yet they continue to stay there because it is paying bills, rather than being focused on what they really enjoy and want to do.

The point is clearly to focus on what you like, what things in the past have worked for you and brought you the biggest victories. What are you doing right now that is not working. All this require you to sit down and do some clear thinking. Having a clear mental picture of what you want without any fuzziness is one of the core indigents of achieving anything that you want. If you don't know what are you looking for, certainly then no one else does either.

hope everyone is having great time, it's beautiful out here finally spring weather hoohoo!

Higher up in charge

Good morning,
This is God.
I will be handling
All of your
Problems today.
I will not need
Your help, so have
A miraculous day.

No! God did not send me this. While back I came across this little but powerful piece. Some times when under the stress of work, full time job & all other commitments to life I loose my focus. I look at this peace, offer a little prayer & remind myself that everything is as planned. I might be lost, but he up there knows what he's doing...

what are some of your ways to get back on track? seems like every third day i loose my focus, the higher purpose in life that I aspire.

hav better day than good. signing off ~/

Emotions, our choice?

Positive & Negative emotions cannot occupy the mind at the same time, one must dominate other. And it is up to us to decide which one to promote..

7 major negative emotions to avoid:

• fear
• jealousy
• hatred
• revenge
• greed
• superstition
• anger

7 major positive emotions:

• Desire
• Faith
• Love
• Sex
• Enthusiasm
• Romance
• Hope