We all need

We all are driven by six needs

• Certainty (security)
• Variety (surprises, need for some uncertainty)
• Significance (importance, am i worthy of love)
• Connection/Love (we need connections with others & strive for some sort of love)
• Growth (if one is not growing, they die, growing emotionally, intellectually, spirituality)
• Contribution (sense of giving something to someone, making difference is someones life)

Most people have 2 important needs out of six, they are the driving force of their life & must be met for them to feel good. If someone rates Certainty over Love & Connection, then no amount of love will make them happy unless they are completely Certain.

The goal should be to find out what are others most important needs & do everything to make sure that they are meeting this in their eyes. You do this and your relationship with any other human beings will prosper!

have a better day than good, signing off.... yazi~/