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Feb 25, 2007

Quality vs Safe Problems

Quality problems in our lives involves risky forward thinking decision that often takes us to another stage of our life like:
  • career shit ~ committing to relationship ~ starting a family ~ or perhaps leaving a relationship
Quality problems requires us to make a decision to do something that will make difference.

Safe problems on other hand are lingering issues that lies within our control like:
  • depression ~ procrastinating ~ addiction ~ blaming others ~ avoiding decisions ~ or withdrawing from others
Safe problems are safe because they seem to protect us from fear that if we try and fail, we will not be loved or appreciated in life. Of course in a long run safe problems are the ones that causes more problems to our bodies, relationships & spiritual well being.

good to be back to blogging (: hope you are having great on!

5 comments:

Priya said...

Both the problems stay in our minds when we face the situation.

Yazi said...

yes they do indeed priya!

thanks fo comment

tulipspeaks said...

Of course in a long run safe problems are the ones that causes more problems to our bodies, relationships & spiritual well being.

i'm experiencing it and i can tell u.. the safe problems are not exactly 'safe' after all.


=ammu=

Yazi said...

Thx for comment Ammu,

I hope you get out of whatever problem you are facing soon.. problems are not problems i think they are actually questions that "can't you be little more creative?" be flexiable and look at the long run, down 10-15-20 years it won't be sucha a big deal good luck!

Annelisa said...

Too true... it's so much easier to wallow in the wrong ideas/ values.

Definately, our inactions produce long-term reactions...

Good to see you back, Yazi!