Change the questions you ask yourself

• Original question: What am I getting?
• Re-framed question: What am I becoming?
• Original question: Why is this happening to me?
• Re-framed question: What can I learn from this?
• Original question: Why can’t he/she understand me?
• Re-framed question: How can I communicate so that he/she can understand me?

Change the questions you ask yourself, you can change your destiny.

Ask before accepting a job offer

Questions to ask before accepting an offer.

1. Does what I do count?
2. Does it make a difference to anybody?
3. Why should I come here?
4. Can I be somebody here?
5. Does it have any rhyme or rhythm?
6. Can I own this place?
7. Do I have any rights?
8. Is this where I can learn something?

Doing some soul searching and knowing what you value can help you decide if this a right job for you at this moment.