A Gift

The greatest gift one can offer someone, espically child or spouse is an unconditional love. You love someone unconditionally to the degree that you accept the person for all their strengths & weeknesses. This does not mean you never disagree with them. What this means is you never criticize, condemn, complain or demand they change or be someone they are not.

I think unconditional love is the only true form of love. It is important when you offer someone your love, make sure it is not attached with strings. Accept them as they are, not as you wish they were.

Thanks & have a wonderful week you all :)

Don't delay, start now

A human being has an incredible capacity and ability to overcome life's greatest challenges. Embrace the reality and use it next time you are faced with a challenging situation.

It is critical that you understands that the confidence grows by doing, not by thinking. You can think all you want but you will not achieve anything unless you act upon it. Only actions in life produces results. To produce different result will require you to change something. It all starts with you. Until you change, nothing will change around. Procrastination is a one way ticket to staying stuck. It's an excuse not to perform. So don't delay, start now. Take a small single step towards whatever you want and before you know you will be in a rhythm to achieve what you have set out to.

hope all are doing great, i been slacking (procrastinating :( i must say) lately here but I am fully recovered from my back injury and should be moving around more freely on blogger (:

Consistency circle

the circle, you start with:

• making better choices everyday
• which develops better habits
• that builds better character
• makes you more valuable
• that will attract you bigger, better opportunities
• which allows you to give and contribute more
• which in turns brings you bigger & better rewards

Some people in life are high achievers who under the mist of all that surrounds them will still come at top. It all starts with making simple better habits each day, each step feeds itself to another step and before you know it all the worthwhile stuff starts showing up in your life. Just because you made a simple better choice today, that developed good habit.

Positive mind will not get you everything, but it will get you anything you desire. It will give you vision, it will give you opportunity to look into how to go about achieving whatever you want to.

hope all are good. i had strained my back few days back but now doing good. It sure is good to be moving freely again! (:

All the choices

All the results in life you are currently experiencing are absolutely perfect for you. This includes your career, personal relationships and financial status. How could they be something else? The reason where you are today in life is direct result of the choices you have made in the past.

In other words, your regular approach to positive choices or lack of them have put you where you are today. When and only when you accept the full responsibility you are well on your way to peace of mind. Many of us are filled with frustration because we are stuck with Have-To's. There's nothing in this life that you have to, its all choices.. here are some of the stuff you might want to analyze:

How can I do something when I am going through hell.
She made me angry
I am never going to make enough money.
I am stuck with this relationship.
I hate my job.
I hate this.

How sad, All of this is a choice you are making. I realized in life nothing changes unless you yourself change.

hope you see the point, thanks have a great day! summer is here (:

Integrity - Don't go anywhere without it

This three part formula is to help live with the utmost integrity. It's simple yet amazingly effective. Start living with it and I assure your confidence & self perception will get a boost not from outside but from within you.

1. When you always tell the truth, people trust you.
2. When you do what you say and promise, people respect you.
3. When you make effort to make others feel special, people like you.

Three big questions to ask for having good understanding with others are; do I trust them, do I respect them, do I like them? well it seems like to answers to such questions comes back with how you offer the same to other as the 3 step up suggests.

have a great day u all! (;